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Does The Male Squirt Exist? (And How Can You Make It Happen?)

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Does The Male Squirt Exist? (And How Can You Make It Happen?)
ejaculation: stronger pelvic muscles, increased seminal fluid, longer orgasm
  • Prostate squirting: clear or milky fluid, sometimes without erection

  • Both pathways can be labelled as squirting - and, importantly, both can be things you can work towards experiencing.

    Techniques for Achieving Male Squirting

    Whether you're just interested in male squirting in theory, or you'd like to try it in your sex play, it's useful to get some ideas around how it happens.

    With access to team of sex toy testers and feeback from thousands of happy customers, we're well placed to explain some of the techniques that work for different guys. Typically, these approaching include prostate stimulation, continued penile stimulation after orgasm, kegels, some focus on breathing, and some edging practice.

    Let's take a look at how these things work in practice:

    1. Giving Prostate Play a Try

    Given the strong involvement with the male orgasm and fluid production, it seems prostate stimulation is the most direct route to male squirting.

    So, what are some helpful tips around seeking prostate pleasure? It's a good idea to:

    • Start slow - your prostate sits a few inches inside the rectum
    • Use lots of lube (this is a real non-negotiable - use more than you think you'll need)
    • Focus on relaxation and breathing
    • Avoid forcing or aggressive thrusting


    Intense prostate stimulation can trigger rectal sphincter contractions and deep pelvic muscle engagement - key ingredients for fluid release.

    2. Continue Penis Stimulation After Orgasm

    We're almost all guilty of it - stopping stimulation when ejaculation hits. When it comes to squirting, it seems this is a mistake.

    When you keep going, you might find:

    • The refractory period (the time when arousal drops) can be shortened or partially bypassed
    • Continued stimulation of the penis and/or prostate can keep the pelvic muscles active
    • That ongoing stimulation can lead to additional fluid release - either small follow-up spurts, prostate fluid, or a deeper, rolling after-orgasm sensation


    In other words, even if it feels like it, the body's pleasure centers don’t always “shut down” immediately after ejaculation - and if you keep stimulating the right areas, you may unlock something extra.

    This is one area where toys (think glans vibrators or oral simulators) are especially useful here because they don’t rely on erection quality to keep delivering the right kind of stimulation.

    3. Create a Daily Kegel Routine

    Your pelvic floor muscles matter more than you think when it comes to virtually every kind of sex play. It's not necessarily about making them strong - it's more about becoming familiar with how to control them.

    Controlled and coordinated pelvic muscles help:

    • Control ejaculation
    • Increase fluid movement
    • Improve prostate and pelvic striated contractions


    Daily kegels (and reverse kegels) improve awareness and control - crucial for both prostate squirting and powerful ejaculation.

    4. Control Your Breath

    While the idea of breath work has previously been considered something that's more of an alternative approach to health, it's becoming more and more mainstream - and for good reason. When we're stressed, breathing becomes shallow - and increases tension across the body, never good for pleasure.

    While it might be hard to eradicate stress from your life, breathing has the fantastic ability to calm stress responses when it's controlled. When you show your breathing, your body responds.

    While breathing delibrately in all areas of life can be benefitical, deep breathing during arousal can help:

    • Relax the pelvic muscles
    • Reduce involuntary clenching
    • Allowing stronger orgasmic waves


    If you’re holding your breath or bringing stressed breathing to the bedroom, you’re potentially holding yourself back.

    5. Practice Edging

    Edging is the practice of taking yourself close to ejaculation, then backing off or slowing down while keeping going with simulation. In simple terms, this can turn a 2-3 minute 'quick' session with a quick release into a something much longer with a more explosive ending.

    How? Well, extended sexual arousal increases:

    • Seminal fluid production
    • Prostate sensitivity
    • Orgasm intensity


    Some men report fluid release before ejaculation after long edging sessions - especially when combined with prostate play.

    Finding the Right Prostate or Edging Toy

    When it comes to male squirting, toys can dramatically shorten the learning curve. It's the difference between approaching a job with the right tools - or just hoping you'll be able to improvise to get things done.

    What works? This table lays out some possibilities:

    TOY TYPE WHAT IT DOES WHAT TO LOOK FOR 
    Vibrating prostate massagers Direct prostate stimulation Curve, size, vibration
    Tapping prostate toys Rhythmic prostate pressure Adjustable intensity
    Edging toys Builds arousal without release Grip, texture
    Hands-free toys or penis vibrators Post-orgasm play     
    Comfort, suction


    If your goal is male squirting, tools matter. They provide consistent stimulation that hands alone can’t replicate.

    Male Squirting (And How to Make It Happen): A Summary

    So, does male squirting exist? Yes - but it doesn’t look the same for everyone.

    For some men, it shows up as prostate fluid released during intense stimulation. For others, it’s a noticeably more powerful ejaculation with increased seminal fluid and stronger pelvic contractions. The science around it is still catching up, but anatomy, real-world experience, and consistent reports from men all point in the same direction: this is a real phenomenon, even if it isn’t universal.

    How to Find the Right Edging Tool for You


    What matters most is how you approach it. Prostate stimulation, pelvic muscle awareness, breath control, and edging all play a role, and the right toy can make a huge difference by providing consistent, targeted stimulation that’s hard to replicate manually.

    Just remember - this isn’t a switch you flip. It’s a skill you explore over time. Stay curious, be patient with your body, and don’t judge the outcome. Whatever form of pleasure you discover along the way is valid (and likely good fun).

    Learn the deeper mechanics of male pleasure, orgasm control, and pelvic floor function

    Explore a range of closely related topics here:

    • The Male Orgasm: Everything You Need to Know
    • Kegels for Men: How They Can Help with ED and Premature Ejaculation
    • What is Edging? A Guide to Orgasm Control
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